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I Don't Know How She Does It by Allison Pearson
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I Don't Know How She Does It

by Allison Pearson

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Anchor (2003), Paperback

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I enjoyed how real this book was. Though I'm not a mother, and couldn't totally relate, I enjoyed learning about the inner workings of Kate's life and the challenges she faced. I thought the characters and all their flaws, were very real. I often look at my own life and realize and have come to terms that I most likely couldn't balance everything. I can barely balance a full time job and being a wife, so I admire people like Kate and people that raise children. Hard jobs all around.
  traciragas | Dec 3, 2009 |
There were parts of this book when I was shocked how much it mirrored my own life and my own experiences with my in-laws! This book really made me feel like I am not the only one who compares herself to the stay-at-home moms and feeling like I just can't get it all together, trying to balance everything, but also loving my career. Very well-written book, though the British colloquialisms were a little difficult to decipher at times! ( )
  voracious | Mar 7, 2009 |
I had to give this 3 stars, because I did want to finish it, but I didn't really like it. I kept asking myself not so much 'I don't know how she does it', as 'I don't know why she does it'! Very irritating protagonist. And yes, I am a working mother, but not to that extent - the bottom line is, you can't have it all because there isn't enough time! ( )
  Goldengrove | Feb 7, 2009 |
this is a special book, even though it's not perfect ( )
  walkingbetween | Nov 27, 2008 |
Audio book. Very humourous story of a woman balancing a high-flying career and the social expectations of her role as a wife and mother to 2 small children in wealthy London. ( )
  jumpingjacks | Oct 5, 2008 |
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For Evie with love
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Monday, 1:37 A.M. How did I get here?
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I take my time brushing my teeth. A count of twenty for each molar. If I stay in the bathroom long enough, Richard will fall asleep and will not try to have sex with me.
Men today can only be better fathers than their fathers. Simply by knowing how to change a nappy or figuring out which hole you stick the bottle in--these things mark them out as more capable parents than any previous generation. But women can only be worse mothers than our mothers, and this rankles because we are working so very very hard and we are doomed to fail.
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Amazon.com (ISBN 0375713751, Paperback)

Allison Pearson's debut novel, I Don't Know How She Does It, is a rare and beautiful hybrid: a devastatingly funny novel that's also a compelling fictional world. You want to climb inside this book and inhabit it. However, you might find it pretty messy once you're in there. Narrator Kate Reddy is the manager of a hedge fund and mother of two small children. The book opens with an emblematic scene as Kate "distresses" a store-bought mince pie to make it appear homemade. Her days are measured in increments of minutes and even seconds; her fund stays organized but her house and family are falling apart. The book is a pearly string of great lines. Here's Kate on lack of sleep: "They're right to call it a broken night.... You crawl back to bed and you lie there trying to do the jigsaw of sleep with half the pieces missing." On baby boys: "A mother of a one-year-old son is a movie star in a world without critics." On subtle office dynamics:
The women in the offices of EMF [Kate's firm] don't tend to display pictures of their kids. The higher they go up the ladder, the fewer the photographs. If a man has pictures of kids on his desk, it enhances his humanity; if a woman has them it decreases hers. Why? Because he's not supposed to be home with the children; she is.
There's inherent drama here: Kate is wildly appealing, and we want things to work out for her. In the end, the book isn't a just collection of clever lines on the theme of working motherhood; it's a real, rich novel about a character we come to cherish. --Claire Dederer

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